Archive for 7月, 2010

    这几天在抱佛脚,上网查资料,不是为应付考试,是甸的问题把我难住了,他的问题是:为什么地球有different的人?有我们(这样)的人和他们(这样)的人?说不一样的话?呵呵这个问题看似简单,却涉及人类的起源,好庞大的问题啊,不想敷衍他。唉,我要是渊博一点该多好啊,他如果有个问不倒爸爸或妈妈该多好啊
 
    鼓励甸问,问即思考。
    1/为什么地球有different的人?有我们(这样)的人和他们(这样)的人?说不一样的话?
    2/为什么人要吃饭?
    3/为什么有野兽?tiger?
    4/为什么有汽车/火箭/机器人/变形金刚?
    5/为什么有各种line?他问的是马路上的各种交通标志,解释,再引申到深层次——规则/秩序/法律
    6为什么有house?同1合并解释
    我也问他问题:为什么左眼看不见右眼?他道:因为在一个face上,但别人可以看见你的。呵呵回答的还算不错。
   
    开学快一周了,每天早上又开始耍赖“又要上学啊?我不要上学,,”然后磨叽去厕所磨叽刷牙磨叽吃饭,我河东狮吼。。。事后后悔
    这么冷的天,叫他添条棉毛裤他死活不肯:“同学要笑的”也是,小孩子不喜欢跟别人不一样。穿着长袖+薄绒/单裤校服缩头缩脑就上学去了,有孩子就单长袖T桖,我看着都呱呱抖。
 
超喜欢洁尘的书房
梦想有洁尘这样的书房,,
后面咽下去的一句话是:如果我有一间这样的书房,我肯定能定定心心心无旁骛地看书学习。。。呵呵燕听到肯定要笑了(燕虽然比我小那么多,但某种程度上却有着超乎年龄的对人性洞察的冷静)
 

将爱

Posted: 2010年07月20日 in 象棋象棋

现在甸的最爱是:国际象棋/变形金刚/薯片巧克力。合称“吉祥三宝”。

其中,国际象棋是甸的最最爱。说他沉溺于此也不为过。每天不是玩电脑上的象棋游戏就是自己摆局:趴在地上,黑白轮番上,嘴里还喃喃自语,呵呵最后的结果总是千军万马指向敌方孤零零仓皇无处躲藏四面楚歌的KING,甸军疯狂大胜:“Checkmate!!”“Checkmate!!!” 孩子式的意淫哈哈。还喜欢缠着我们下,小子一赖二输不起三爱哭鼻子,我和猪见他下棋都要绕道走。不过从最初的他哭,发展到猪慢慢的有些招架不住到现在猪恼羞成怒气急败坏猪急跳墙了#@&……目前我家的chess军事战略局势是:甸曾经是我的手下败将,猪是甸的手下败将,同理,推理。。。哈哈,开个玩笑损一下猪

最近甸的象棋老师布兰登在他的博里狠狠的夸了甸,我看后,忍不住的一阵狂喜,以前一直以为他夸他只是外国人夸张的礼貌(可能事实上现在仍然是吖吖),忍不住大笑三声

其实倒应该好好谢谢他的老师布兰登,一个好的启蒙老师对一个孩子是多么的重要(想当初墨学棋——墨的智力在甸之上,因为没有谁看出他潜在的天分,也没谁引导鼓励,就那么不了了之了,很多孩子的很多天分都这么不了了之的),给他自信,给他开启一扇通向神奇世界的门。。。

老师的一句鼓励或一个不耐烦的眼神,能让孩子,或颠尖或谷底。谢谢布兰登

还要谢谢燕JACK,哈哈怎么感觉象在颁奖礼上明星的感谢词,对了,忘记感谢国家了哈哈

将爱。将对象棋的爱好进行到底,将自信进行到底。

独自偷着乐,如夜行,总不那么爽,窃喜不如大笑,转发一下。

以下是BRANDAN的博

 

Golden Coaching Moments #1

This will be a column dedicated to those moments for a chess coach when work doesn’t really seem difficult, when a coach fully understands why he does what he does…The times he enjoys the “Golden Moments”.

His name is Dian Dian and having turned 5 in April, to me he was a bright little guy with huge charisma and energy, affection and a happy personality…basically, a normal 5 year old.

His parents brought him to me to test if he will like chess and with the hope to also give him  an avenue to channel his enormous energy into and maybe develop his patience and thinking skills.

It was clear from the start that Dian was enraptured with chess and he soaked up everything he was taught and usually finished his homework before even leaving my house.

I found also that it was clear that this boy is extremely smart and talented and absorbs the concepts quickly…that is, when his quick mind isn’t racing ahead of the current position trying to show me a “good move”! .

Here is an example of Dian’s talent:

In the position above, it is clear to any experienced player that the game is already over and that black is lost, but Dian had learnt how to move the pieces one or two weeks before this game and was playing the white pieces against his Dad! (ok, I admit Dian made white AND blacks first 15 odd moves, giving his father a lost position to start with).

From the diagrammed position Dian played 1.Qxa7 which to the naked eye and any beginner seems to just “forget” about the unprotected knight on d6. 

 His father thought for only a couple of seconds and said “hmm, can I just take this?” And captured the “unprotected” knight on d6 with his rook (as we see below) 1…Rxd6.

Dian now thought for a few seconds while giving his usual lively and cute commentary and played 2.Bc5 before announcing to his Dad “You’re in BIG trouble now!”, and indeed he is…

This move forks (attacks two or more pieces at once) the two black rooks and leads to a crushing victory in the near future (although Dian’s technique in winning requires work haha).

Now the use of a simple fork might not seem breath-taking, but coming from a boy who has just learnt to move the pieces two weeks before and now develops his pieces, castles the king and knows how to attack,capture AND checkmate,AND has just turned 5, is a sign of true talent and a future potential star.

I sent him home armed with a chess set, his homework and a copy of the great “Fritz and Chesster” software, and his mother has reported to me that he seems to have channelled all of his energy into chess and spend hours on Fritz and Chesster between lessons, draws chess related pictures and even plays games against himself.

Here is one such masterpiece of his “chess art”: 

And here is Dian caught in the act of creating it:

Another thing I found very cute and interesting was that Dian likes to read my chess books when he comes over and as he cant read too well yet, reads them like story books and looks at the pictures and diagrams before saying something like “The bishop can eat the PAWN!!”, or “Brendan,look there’s a PIN!”.

This gives me confidence that in the future with this type of mind, Dian will not need to be pushed but will be instead nurtured towards becoming a very strong player….he already has the talent AND the enthusiasm.

Above is Dian browsing over the “San Louis 2005” chess tournament book while watching cartoons, I HAD to get a picture! .

Teaching Dian has been a very satisfying experience thus far and I have watched him change from a constantly moving “jitterbug”, into a still high energy little boy, but who can sit quietly and listen now, and more importantly….is learning how to think!.

http://smartdolphinschess.wordpress.com/2010/07/17/golden-coaching-moments-1/#comments

 

妈妈生日快乐

Posted: 2010年07月16日 in

今天是老妈生日,

。。。肉麻的话我实在说不出来,,呵呵上菜!!

 

左:甸赶制的生日祝福卡。费好大劲写的姥姥的名字“宁玲”,还有00,呵呵小名。

画的有点乱七八糟,呵呵不过是原创,是他趴在地上吭哧吭哧画的。

右:甸要向姥姥展示的今天收到的火星朋友TONY给他的信。他还要和TONY比试一下MARS CHESS和EARTH CHESS,看谁厉害呢

再上一道飞吻,吖吖质量不高

 

我们的二人世界。
呵呵这个让我又爱又烦的小男人
——讨厌又可爱的
——臭宝
 
这两周,一直阴雨
我们一起睡懒觉,直到日上三竿
我们一起下象棋画故事做手工吃零食,创造力如泉涌
这些天,他只发过一次猪脾气,呵呵拧巴孩子的拧巴劲,改不了
我也忍字当头,没怎么发飙
娘俩空前和谐
 
也一宅男,问他去公园?不去。去购物买玩具?不去。去蓝山?NO!我就喜欢呆在家里。
正合吾意,我也懒得出门,尤其是最近的商场也得坐公交并上网查时刻表。
 
虽然老缠着我,一不见我就听见尖嫩的嗓音:妈妈,过来,,,
我不能上网聊天看八卦看碟学英语偷偷抽烟
不过,
我很享受 这一刻
 
“妈妈,你是我的best friend,”此话算是对做妈的最大褒奖了,
但愿,若干年后/叛逆期/长大成人/有了自己的孩子后,我仍是他的friend,那我就可以对自己说我是一个成功的妈妈了
 
晚上,猪回家,宝小黄狗一样扑上去又拉又扯献媚,爸爸爸爸,,
猪敷衍的嗯嗯嗯好好,,眼睛却一瞬不瞬直视电脑,
唉,,,
 
图:发明的机关枪和小机器人
左:小故事,呵呵欠创意,很多语法错误。他很拗听不进建议;右:我们的中文名字,以后肯定写的比三和猪的狗爬字好
 
画的故事。
画的故事。一个男花一个女花&×#%,
 
象棋画谱

下图:拧巴孩子的拧巴劲,就像狗改不了吃shi一样。闹着闹着睡着了

 
 
 

假期计划

Posted: 2010年07月2日 in 甸的学生涯
今天是本学期最后一天,马上要开始甸期盼已久的“不要上学不要上班”的小假期了(两周)。制定一些我和甸的小小计划,否则一晃就要过去了。
1/数学,1-10的读写加;1-30任意数最好能加,如果能数到50,想要什么玩具给什么;
2/国际象棋,
3/画画,乱画;
4/汉字,每天2个,唐诗,酌情;
5/3-5个英语短句子组成的小文
6/学校的功课:下学期一开学就有个“教育周”,1:要求每个学生背一首诗,2:做一个“研究”报告——1960年代和2010的不同(可选择一个侧面展开)。我们要好好发挥发挥
 
我的计划:
1/忍,,看到宝讨厌了干坏事了,先静数3秒钟,深呼吸,,再,,
一个妈妈“看到孩子打翻牛奶溅的满地毯都是,还能微笑”,呵呵这简直不是人是妖,我是永远修炼不到
2/JK罗琳传英文版;
3/一周两博;
4/蓝山小镇背包游,就我们俩,坐火车。
呵呵满满当当了
 
图:从他书包里搜出的,一个叫RACHEL的女孩写的,很可爱
 
我们一家人

开始学写句子。呵呵没有RACHEL写的工整